No-one wants to be fighting all the time, but too many couples find themselves doing little else. Arguing becomes a habit and even the littlest things quickly turn into World War III.
It’s often hard to know which is worse, the fighting itself or the anxiety of knowing that the next argument is just around the corner.
Communicating without fighting
Constant arguing is a substitute for couples who have forgotten how to communicate. Simply trying not to fight will not work, and avoiding fighting by avoiding each other is just a different route to relationship death. The solution is to find a way to channel your feelings into a different mode of communication.
You have a right to explain how you feel and be heard. So does your partner. With the right tools, each disagreement can be an opportunity to build a more lasting bond, not the trigger for another argument.
A happier relationship
You and your partner can find a way to stop arguing. No-one want to live in a domestic war zone. Through therapy with me, you will learn how to stop fighting all the time and to begin peacefully communicating again. This means learning to express yourself in a way that is authentic and real but not hurtful. It also means learning to listen to what your partner has to say. Life with another person will always bring disagreements. No two people are perfectly matched. Couples therapy is not about papering over the differences between you, but creating the environment where you can be yourself with your partner in an atmosphere of peace.
Help is available
You don’t have to suffer endless arguments forever. For couples therapy and marriage counseling in Brooklyn that can help you stop fighting and start talking, call today or or make an appointment online.Please share this post!